Dating safety tips for women

Dating in 2026 is harder than ever — with ghosting, breadcrumbing, and “situationships.” But your intuition is your superpower. Here are 10 red flags you should never ignore.

1. He’s Secretive About His Life

Won’t introduce you to friends? Hides his social media? He’s keeping options open.

2. You’re Always the One Texting First

Relationships take two. If you’re doing all the work, it’s not mutual.

3. He Jokes About Your Insecurities

“Ang kapal ng mukha mo!” isn’t funny — it’s cruelty disguised as humor.

4. He’s Hot and Cold

Loves you Monday, ignores you Tuesday. This is **breadcrumbing** — keeping you hooked with crumbs of attention.

5. He Disrespects Your “No”

Pressures you for sex, money, or time? That’s coercion, not love.

6. He’s Still “Friends” with Exes

Especially if they DM daily. Healthy boundaries > fake friendships.

7. He Blames You for His Mood

“Nasobrahan ako kasi inisip kita.” No. Your emotions are yours alone.

8. He Doesn’t Support Your Goals

Makes fun of your side hustle? Says “bakit ka pa nag-aaral?” Run.

9. He Uses Guilt to Control You

“Kung talagang mahal mo ako, gagawin mo ‘to.” Love doesn’t manipulate.

10. You Feel Anxious, Not Peaceful

Your gut knows. If you’re constantly worried, it’s not love — it’s fear.

Green Flags to Look For

• He asks about your day — and listens
• He respects your time and energy
• He celebrates your wins like his own

FAQs

What if he says “I’m just busy”?

Busy people make time for what matters. If you’re a priority, you’ll feel it.

Conclusion

You don’t need a man to complete you — you need one who complements you. Never lower your standards to keep someone who won’t raise theirs.